The Retirement of Pastor Scot Sorensen
Written by Gregory Favre
Doctor or Pastor? What will it be?
A young Scot Sorensen tangled with that decision for several years. His father Vern served on church councils and call committees and his mother Patsy headed the altar guild for 20 years. The family, including Scot and his older brother Marc, was in church every Sunday
(read more about Scot's family here). And the Lutheran pastor was a close family friend.
But so was the family’s doctor.
One way to decide was to have a small, but effective, experience of both professions. Scot as a high school junior joined an occupational program where after school you could work in a hospital. His assignment was in the emergency room where he could see up close and personal the relationships between doctors and nurses, and patients in need of immediate care.
Then he spent the summer in a Lutheran camp in Idaho and spent time with pastors.
Doctor or Pastor? What would it be? Help heal the body or help heal the soul?
He had completed his personal homework, and he felt “my skillset was a right fit to be a pastor.” And then later on, “I felt the call.” After graduating high school, he enrolled in California Lutheran University, majoring in history, graduating cum laude. He also played varsity volleyball and served as student body vice president.
He kept his desire to be a pastor to himself during his four years there because he didn’t want people “to put me in a box, as they often tend to do.” But those years at Cal Lutheran helped spark his passion about wanting to help congregations move from an inward focus to an outward one where members would live God’s love in actions outside of the sanctuary.
That was the beginning of a journey starting 45 years ago that took him to the Lutheran Seminary in St. Paul, Minnesota and then on to an internship at a church in Davenport, Washington.
“It was farm community,” he recalls. “There was one flashing red light in the county and five or six churches, each a different denomination. Just about everyone in town attended one or the other. I really liked the Northwest. I learned many things during that internship, which lasted an extra two months, 14 in all.
“One thing I learned was to carry work clothes at all times. Often, you would have to go out with the farmer to help him, such as feeding the cows in the winter.”
He was ready for his first call, and it came from a church in a location as different from the farmlands of Washington as possible, to Mount Carmel Church in San Luis Obispo, California. He was brought on as an associate pastor assigned to the youth of the church and to the campus ministry at California Polytechnic State University, San Luis Obispo.
“It was a great first call that lasted from 1984 to 1989,” he recalls with a smile. “I learned a ton, especially from all of the mistakes I made.”
But there was also another reason why that call was so memorable.
In 1988, Scot went to the Lutheran Youth Gathering in San Antonio. There, he met a woman named Kathy Hassell.
“Scot and I were both working the 1988 Gathering in San Antonio as staff. He was a hotel pastor at the Travelodge on the River and I was a Youth Coordinator at the Hyatt,” Kathy recalls. “At the training for the hotel staff, we sat across from each other and I thought he was pretty cute. My hotel pastor knew him, and when I asked about Scot, he said, ‘Scot Sorensen is a flaming heterosexual.’ It took me a moment, then I realized, hey that totally works for me! We had our first date at a restaurant on the river as well as our first kiss.”
Scot and Kathy became engaged and Scot moved to Dallas without a call. “I don’t advise that,” he says now. But it worked out just fine. He and Kathy were married in Dallas in 1990 and Scot was called to be a pastor on the staff of King of Glory Church as Director of Family Ministries. “It was a message from God,” he labels it now. Three years later, he joined the staff of Zion Lutheran Church of Helotes in San Antonio, and Kathy continued her work toward a PhD from the University of Texas at Austin.
After six years at Zion and 10 years in Texas, he was open for a new call, and St. John’s Lutheran Church in Sacramento was searching for a new senior pastor. After interviewing him, seven members of the call committee flew to San Antonio to hear him preach.
“It was pretty obvious that Sunday,” he said. “They sat in groups of 2, 2 and 3. None of them looked like locals. We went to lunch together after service and they said they would like to call me.” After 15 years as a staff pastor, he moved into a senior pastor position. It was April 1999.
He arrived in June with knowledge of various worship styles from “High Mass” to contemporary, and with a love for music at services. A few years later an ideal partner, Steven Johnson, became St. John’s music director.
In his first St. John’s sermon
(read the full sermon here)
based on Roman 5, verses 1-8, how we are justified by faith, Pastor Sorensen devoted just three paragraphs near the beginning to speak about being there:
“Wow! It is good to be here. I am humbled, I am excited, I am honored to be called to share in ministry with you.
Over the coming years and decades, you will come to learn more about me, and I will learn your life stories and faith stories. Ahead of us I know God is preparing a glorious future for
St. John’s. Just as God has been faithfully leading this congregation in bold acts of witness and ministry, God will continue to guide us.
In time, we will learn plenty about each other, and there will be plenty of opportunities for sharing. But today I would rather speak about something else. Something much more interesting than me. Today, and for years to come, I will have the privilege to speak to you about my first love, our Savior Jesus Christ.”
It was in his second sermon titled “No Fear” that he spoke of his vision for St. John’s, a vision based on three bold words that appeared then in the church’s mission statement: Worship, Grow and Serve. He spoke of his vision of “a thriving downtown ministry, in the heart of Sacramento, with a heart for Sacramento.”
And he closed with these words:
“It is a journey before us that is fraught with fear. Naysayers from within and without will try to say that thriving, Gospel-driven, purpose-filled downtown congregations are as extinct as dinosaurs. But that is fear talking, not the love and power of the gospel.
Let us boldly claim the future God has in store. Remember what Jesus says, "Have no fear."
There are only two feelings: love and fear.
There are only two languages: love and fear.
There are only two activities: love and fear, only two motives, two procedures, two frameworks, two results: love and fear.
And the choice before us is which shall we choose.”
Now, Pastor Sorensen says that sermon laid out where he believed St. John’s was at that moment in its history, afraid and nervous, and a little cheerleading is sometimes needed.
One thing for sure, the call committee had found a pastor who could preach. And that was recognized every Sunday he stood in the pulpit. But that gift to hold an audience, hundreds in the pews or 35,000 at an ELCA Youth Gathering, took work and dedication and preparation.
At Cal Lutheran, Scot had taken some journalism courses and learned that writing in journalism style was very helpful. Not long prose, but shorter sentences and paragraphs, the way most people talk to each other.
“The gospels were meant to be told, not to be read. They need to be live conversations,” he says. “Preaching is both arts and science.” And he attended speech camps in Colorado twice to learn more about how to do it as well as he possibly could. He also happened to be the only Lutheran there.
“You have to do homework,” is his advice to his colleagues. “Sundays come every week, so don’t put it off. You know what text you will need for the next three years. Many pastors find excuses as to why they haven’t been working on their sermons. My sermon writing work starts weeks and weeks ahead because I never knew when an illustration would cross my desk and will fit in one of the six or seven sermons I was working on at the same time.
“But you also have to be in charge of your own time management because there will always be emergencies.”
For many St. John’s members, it was his sermons on special days in the year, such as Palm Sunday and Holy Thursday, that remain in their book of memories.
A deeply dedicated student of the bible, Pastor Sorensen would memorize the text and tell it to the people in each character’s voice as he walked around the altar, bringing to life what happened all those hundreds of years ago. Those of us in the pew could imagine for a handful of moments that we were there in their presence.
But obviously, there are many other things on a pastor’s plate, some that can challenge the stability of the congregation if not handled in a sensitive and wise manner.
For example, in 2009 the Churchwide Assembly passed the ELCA Social Statement, Human Sexuality: Gift and Trust. It didn’t cause as much anxiety at St. John’s as it did as a number of other congregations.
“I felt that while there was a majority of the congregation at that time who was fully in favor of full inclusion of LGBTQIA+ as clergy persons and staff, as well as same gender marriage,” Pastor Sorensen said when asked to comment on how he imagined St. John’s members would react to the statement. “Our theologically conservative members also felt like St. John's was their home, too. Openly gay active members made the issue personal and kept anyone from using pejorative stereotypes and generalizations.”
But to make sure that everyone had the opportunity to fully understand what the Assembly had done, he conducted a series of gatherings to explain and to answer any questions regarding it.
Meanwhile, St. John’s continued to grow and to be acutely involved in the community, members helping to build homes with Habitat for Humanity, raising money to build dormitories for school children in Rwanda, providing critically needed overnight housing in Goethe Hall (now known as The Gathering Place) for the homeless on bitterly cold or hot nights, providing food for the hungry and in other areas where support was needed.
Scot joined the Downtown Rotary Club, and years later served a term as its president, as well as being associated with interfaith activities throughout the Sacramento area. He and Kathy welcomed a son, Kai, in July 2003.
As the years passed there were staff changes. In 2007, a new associate pastor was needed and the call committee selected Pastor Frank Espegren, a Sacramento native who was a practicing attorney before entering the seminary. He was quite familiar with St. John’s going back to his high school days. And during his first year in the seminary, St. John’s was his Teaching Parish.
Pastor Espegren would go on to become senior pastor and serve in that capacity for 13 years before announcing his retirement. In a letter to the congregation, he wrote, “St. John’s has blessed my life; serving as one of your Pastors continues to be my greatest vocation call.”
Together, the two friends led St. John’s for 25 years.
Then, the Bethel Lutheran Church in Madison, Wisconsin, was seeking a new senior pastor and Pastor Sorensen was on its call committee’s list of candidates.
Why would he entertain a call to Bethel? “There were only two congregations I knew I would ever consider,” he replied. “Bethel was one of them. A downtown church with a passion for social justice, a tradition of worship, and anchored in the community. So, when the phone call came and I was asked if I would be open to talk, I asked myself, what would God expect me to do?”
The initial conversation with the Bethel folks grew into a call to leave St. John’s and Sacramento, where his family had become entrenched, Kathy as a teacher and leader at the American River Community College and Kai as an elementary school student and active youth at St. John’s.
The Bethel committee came, heard him preach, took him to lunch and eventually offered him the post, and he said yes. It was in November of 2011, a dozen years and six months after coming to St. John’s.
“It wasn’t easy,” he recalls. “It was a truly difficult decision. But I believed that what we had built and achieved through the years that the congregation would be able to do new things and continue to grow without me in the picture. I knew St. John’s would continue to thrive, and thrilled that it has happened.”
Madison became the Sorensen’s home. Kathy worked as Coordinator of Part-Time Faculty and as Associate Dean of the Business and Applied Arts for almost four years at the Madison Area Technical College. Kai attended an elementary school.
But Pastor Sorensen learned that Bethel was not St. John’s in some important ways, and in his words, “I wasn’t able to do at Bethel what we were able to do at St. John’s.”
After four years, Kathy had a job opportunity at Consumnes River College.
So, it was time to return to the city they loved.
Scot was offered and accepted a five-year contract to direct a brand new venture at the established Saint John’s Program for Real Change. It was created to assist women offenders in acquiring a path back into society. “I opened it and served as director for five years and then secured another five-year contract for it to continue,” he said. “It was more of a 24-7 job than being a senior pastor.”
Kathy returned as Dean of Science, Math and Engineering at Cosumnes. Three years later, she moved to American River College and for years held various Interim Dean and Dean positions. Now, she is Vice President of Instruction at Woodland Community College. In that role she supports the president in visioning for the future for the college and its students.
“Our goal is to end poverty,” she explained. “To that end, my primary duties are working with faculty and staff to support students in the classroom portion of their college experience and help them reach their educational goals. This is concentrated on hiring, scheduling of classes, and evaluations of faculty.”
Kathy serves as the Accreditation Liaison Officer as the college goes through accreditation this fall and works with faculty on a number of initiatives touching instruction.
When asked what advice, if any, she would pass on to other spouses of pastors, she replied, “So, the advice I was given prior to our marriage was, support Scot in whatever he wants to do as a pastor. Clearly, that person didn't know me very well. I think my advice would be the same for anyone deciding to get married - recognize that marriage is a constant re-negotiation of terms. You will not be the same person in five years (or 10 years or 20 years or 35 years), neither will your partner. You have to be intentional about moving into the future together, or you won't. So, be honest. Don't play games. And start from a place of love...even when you're really ticked off.”
Or as Scot says, “Kathy doesn’t like to fit into the image of what others think a pastor’s wife should be. She has her own ministry outside of the church.”
Kai returned in the middle of his 7th grade year and enrolled at California Middle School. From there, it was on to McClatchy High School where he excelled as a long distance runner on the track team for three years. He is now in his fourth year at Pacific Lutheran University.
“I am studying business with a concentration in accounting,”
he explained. “I will be pursuing graduate school next year, but as to which specific degree I will pursue, I am unsure. My hope going forward is to run with my last year of track eligibility while getting my master's degree at whichever school I decide to go to. Long term, I hope to be a CFO.”
“This year will be my last year of cross country competition,” he continued, “but I will not compete for PLU during the track season to save that eligibility for next year. I was on the McClatchy High School team from sophomore through senior year. I have a partial scholarship, all of it is under the academic aid umbrella, due to the fact that Division 3 schools aren't allowed to offer athletic scholarships. What I have learned the most is that the people will truly make or break your experience wherever you go. Outside of a select few universities, the name on your diploma won't matter all that much, but 30 years down the line, you will remember your experiences and how the people you surrounded yourself with made you feel.”
And what would he tell other pastors’ children?
“I would say try to do your best to keep church politics out of your life as much as you can. There will always be people who disagree with what your parent is doing from the pulpit, and that isn't your problem. Live your life as a youth in the church, just like all of your peers, and enjoy each day in the light of the Lord.”
Scot, after his time serving Saint John’s Program for Real Change, chose to work as an interim pastor, serving at three different California churches - Shepherd of the Hills in Vacaville, Christ Lutheran in Visalia, and Our Savior’s Lutheran in Lafayette.
“Congregations love their interim pastors,” he observes. “I had a wonderful experience in all of them. An interim can be a calming presence in a time of anxiety, a time of change, of ensuring the members that there is a future.”
Now, 45 years after entering seminary, 40 years as a serving pastor, Scot is really retiring. He can look back at that long-ago struggle - doctor or pastor - knowing it was the correct one.
Obviously, he has accumulated a list of high points and low points. No one in any profession could serve people as he has done without them.
Here are just a few from the St. John’s years:
- The entire process of upgrading the sanctuary, including the generosity of the members, the gatherings in Goethe Hall, now known as The Gathering Place, for Sunday services, sitting in folding chairs and getting to know each other better than before and some for the first time.
- Working with members to create a new Mission Statement, “To Live God’s Love in the World,” as well as new Vision and Value statements.
- Getting to know Pastor Robert Romeis, who led St. John’s for 40 years, and his children and grandchildren. “Pastor Romeis and I had a great relationship,” he said. “He and his family would have us over for Christmas dinner. He was a great Lutheran and a really good preacher. I used to kid him about the 8 o’clock service. He did it without music. I added music and I would tell him attendance didn’t change with music. I wish he would have lived much longer.”
In his last sermon before leaving for Bethel, he included a memory of Pastor Romeis:
“I remember an October Sunday in 2003 when Kathy and I stood right there, in front of that font and Kai was baptized
“There were years when Kathy and I never thought such a day would come….but it did. I almost made it through that baptism without crying…almost.
I remember other baptisms, too. There was Bobby Cloninger’s baptism. Bobby’s full name is Robert Sebastian. He is named after his Great Grandfather, Robert Sebastian Romeis. Pastor Romeis was senior pastor here at St. John’s from 1943 to1983. And after that time, he served as Pastor Emeritus.
It was my great joy to know Pastor Romeis, a great sadness when he died. But since Pastor Romeis’ death, it has fallen to me the privilege to baptize his great grandchildren. I remember holding little Bobby in my arms walking him down the aisle. And the tears started streaming.
Those were tears neither of joy or sorrow, rather I was overwhelmed, simply overwhelmed by the power and Presence of God. There in my arms was the legacy of faith that is handed down generation to generation, and we got a front row seat to watch God at work. I had hope that day, just as I have had hope at every other baptism.”
- Being able to spend more time with the lay leadership of the church, invest in them, and then serve with them.
- Working with St. John’s members to build homes for Habitat for Humanity and providing shelter and food for the unhoused.
- Raising the money in the congregation to build a dormitory for children in Rwanda and being there with three members for its dedication.
- High on the list, the congeniality of colleagues through the decades and the lasting friendships in the cities where he has served.
- Beyond St. John’s, there was the special memory of the 2000 ELCA Youth Gathering, thousands of young people to hear him tell the gospel.
- Telling the gospel to the people in the pews or in the chairs.
- The two Easter services at the Memorial Auditorium, especially the one in 2008. It was eight days after Pastor Sorensen’s mother, Patsy, had died. But let Pastor Sorensen tell it as he did in his farewell sermon at St. John’s (full sermon available here):
“I remember my sermon quoting a children’s book by Walt Wangerin which was a favorite bedtime book I read to Kai.
“Listen, before the hoot owl cries
Before the monsters roll their eyes
Before you fly above the skies,
Or robbers bother with alibis,
I’ll sing you the bestest lullaby
Of all!
Faster that I am, and higher than the stars
Stronger than you are in both of your arms,
Here in your room all night while you’re sleeping
Kinder and wiser and best for safekeeping is God.
That’s the name My Baby true!
That’s the one. Oh, God loves you.
From the brown of the ground to the blue of the sky,
From the golden dawns to the grey of goodbye,
From ear to ear a million years,
And butterflies both your eyes
God loves you; God loves you, even better than I.”
Now, Pastor Sorensen is retiring and he does so with a cathedral of memories collected 45 years after he made his decision - doctor or pastor - memories of baptisms and confirmations and marriages, of deaths and funerals, of preaching and counseling. Memories that will be retained by Scot and the many who interacted with him.
Speaking of which, just days ago, he received a call from a friend who had a message for him. Someone in a conversation had mentioned an illustration Scot had used in their wedding 32 years ago.
Who knows? Perhaps he will create some new memories with his guitar as he becomes a full-time member of St. John’s.
“I will just be a regular member,” he says. “I will be part of the band at 11:30 a.m. when it plays. I will not attend congregational meetings and any comments I may have will be shared only with the Senior Pastor, just as Pastor Romeis did with me.”
He has returned to his old church, which brings back the closing paragraphs of his sermon celebrating the church’s 150th anniversary.
“I know that St. John’s has its imperfections over 150 years. Yet, for all her struggles, she, the church, has a lot going for her. Let’s never forget that. She - we - are still something for which we might very well stand in awe. Not because of what we bring to the table, no. But because of what God has done to us through us in Christ.
I give thanks to my God always for you because the grace of God has been given to you in Christ Jesus.
May God’s grace, God’s gifts in abundance and God’s guarantee for our future continue to guide St. John’s through the next 150 years.”
It’s been a long journey since that first day in the seminary.
But there’s no question now, an older Scot Sorensen can whisper to a young Scot Sorensen, “you made the right choice.”






